A Business Plan To Battle Internet Bullying …

Firstly, as I was asked when I tried to raise this suggestion on UKBF as Bitty, why don’t I do this myself …

There are a few reasons but the most important and underlying fact is that I am not capable of driving this idea or taking it to the level that would be required for optimum impact.

Apart from having mental health issues at the moment, even before when I was a succesful Tilly Ba Lou, I wasn’t the best business person on the planet … in fact I often considered writing a book on how not to do business properly.

It would be nice to be part of this and maybe even to get paid and recognised for my input but if it just gets ripped off and copied then it wouldn’t be the first time I lost out to “Business People”.  I only hope that if the idea is stolen then it is not diluted to the detriment of its main cause of tackling internet bullying.

My brain struggles these days so you’ll have to excuse the scattiness of this “Business Plan” … basically I’m just going to ramble and tell it to you the best way I can.

Firstly I should like to make the point that the power and confidence needs to be removed from the bully and given back to the victim.  The use of words such as “VICTIM” for the person being bullied and “BULLY, TROLL, KEYBOARD WARRIOR, for the cyberbully are in themselves counter productive.

Secondly, there are many different levels of cyber bullying and there is not a one size fits all term (at the moment).  For instance, someone who feels inferior themselves (most bullies do) is perhaps not as bad as someone who deliberately sets out to cause someone as much pain as possible in the knowledge that ultimately the “victim” could kill themselves.  Cyber bullying also exists across the net from a business point of view, ruining others businesses as well as driving people to despair, breakdown and again quite often suicide.  I do believe that this called “marketing”.

So all in all there is a huge and complex problem to tackle.  It is a battle that is widespread and worsening … it is a virus that is constantly mutating … it every form however it is sickening and deplorable.

Anyway … I’m rambling …

THE DIFFERENT ARMS AND AIMS TO THE BUSINESS WILL BE

The commercial/business front end of the CyberDoll business needs to be upbeat, fun and become a craze.  The initial idea is that there will be several different cool and quirky looking dolls which as Bitty said will have many funtions.

They can be named and given status by the owner.

They will be collectable.

They will have add ons such as Talking Ban Sticks.

There would be a fantastic opportunity for cartoons, films, computer games and apps.

The serious back end to the business will be in the form of a central database, available only to the relevant authorities where information regarding “cyberbullies” can be filtered out by levels of type and seriousness, alerting the relevant authorities.

In the middle will be assistance and funding for already existing charities and websites who will be helping the victims, along with funding education of the authorities into what does actually happen on the internet.  The internet is not just the internet … the internet IS the real world.

SO HOW WILL IT WORK

Each CyberDoll will come with a name badge and a diary.  On the diary will be printed the different helplines and websites.  There will be a main website on which to register the doll SHOULD YOU EVER NEED TO.

Lots of people will just want the dolls for fun and this in itself is important.  The doll should not be sold as a bully nor a victim.  It should not be a facebook user, forum member, forum troll, forum moderator or have any other label attached to it by the business.  It is simply a doll when it is sold … it then becomes whatever the owner wants it to be. 

The owner gives it its name and status and the majority will simply be used as a harmless, fun, stress toy for children and adults alike.

However, should ANYONE feel that they are being bullied, then they have the opportunity to register the doll on the main website and be directed to all of the other web sites to get the help and advice they need.

They will be able to keep a record of what they have recorded on line and to whom in the physical diary.

The website could also sell advertising space and adopt other ethical online marketing and revenue spinning methods of monetisation.

I would have liked the opportunity to discuss this with business people on a business forum but unfortunately this has now become impossible.

Abbi joined UKBF on Friday … she even installed Google Chrome as the mods of UKBF would have least doubted that FaerieB would use the Scary Google Monster.

She was rumbled after a few posts and PM’s which lead me to two possible scenarios (possibly more but if I told you the others then I would have to kill you).  It has already been established that the Mods can and DO read private messages.  They can also meddle with them and alter them.  The other possibility which is quite likely is that chrome scraped everything off my PC and other browers and notified the forum via the analytics process … or somethink else!

Right … that’s enough for today … I need to dye my hair and finish some Tilly Ba Lou products.

Always with Love … FaerieF x 

I AM A TROLL !!!!!!!! ………………

Why in Gods name do people insist on calling evil, bullying, murdering,vile pieces of shite internet TROLLS!!!!!!!!!!!!! … FFS they are not TROLLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am a TROLL … I have friends who are TROLLS … can we please come up with a term befitting these spineless, retarded, mindless waste of fresh air and bandwidth!

FF x

Bitty and The Cyberdolls …

Hello beautiful world and beautiful people and a happy new year to you all.  Today I’m going to tell you a story about something that happened to me a couple of days ago … are you sitting comfortably … No? …

… them hemorrhoids sure are a bitch ain’t they!   Go put some cream on them I don’t want you wriggling while you’re reading as this is serious stuff which requires your undivided attention! … Oh and wash your hands too and DON’T be sticking your finger up your bum :p …

Before I start the story it might help to give you a quick update following on from my “A Ban is for Life” post.

Decided holding off on taking legal advice until my mental health issues have been resolved.  I mentioned I had my records which were both incomplete and appear to have been tampered with but apart from that just tell a tale of complete incompetence and ass covering … more on that another day.  My last Psychiatrist did one to Australia leaving me on a repeat prescription of Diazepam to be used as and when needed.

I still stutter, can’t go out without Diazepam, shake and have spasms, have short term memory loss and am permanently in a state of high anxiety and thus exhaustion.  I have crazy dreams … (some of which are actually real bonus LOL ones) and I wake myself up shouting and fighting with myself most nights … actually, that’s probably another reason I’m tired all day.

Before my shrink did one, he wrote to my GP and told her I’d refused both blood tests and a CT scan.  This was an absolute lie as I told him I had other symptoms which may possibly point to a tumour.  I did however refuse to give blood due to my complete needle phobia.  Upshot now is that have to see the temporary new shrink who will decide whether I still need a CT scan … finally gave in and gave blood … actually my GP was ace as were the three Diazepam, Magic Cream and 3 nurses who held me down!

Only thing that showed up was slightly low in Folic Acid so have to take a supplement for 3 months then go through the whole blood removing saga again … anyway that’s about where I’m up to … still working on lots of different things and new ideas.

I did get a BMX off the car boot to try to encourage me to go out and get some fresh air whilst building my stamina.  Had a few good days but then spazzed out and lost control of the front wheel, panicked, tripped up and landed with the bike on top of me.  Wasn’t quite the type of stunts I had in mind and I was well and truly bruised and scabby skippied but at least no one saw me except Brian (who did his best not to laugh).

I finally get to see a new Psychiatrist on May 14th, until then my poor long suffering mental health nurse is stuck trying to work out what to do with me on the basis that I can’t stay off the internet and pretend nothing happened due to my possible OCD nature.

Oh there was one other major sad thing that happened … my account on VZi has been suspended so I haven’t really got anyone to talk to now. 

Sooooooooo I decided to re-join UKBusinessForums to try and work out some more of what happened to me and to poke a few friends on there.  It was during one of my incarnations that my new business idea came to me and suddenly it seemed as though the last 2 years really was for a good reason.

I knew that because of the subject matter I would give myself away immediately and so decided upon a different approach. Forum Username Bitty was born … full name: Bittdum-Huan Kaa – business name: Itsasecret

The thread went something along the lines of this:

• BITTY:  Hello I am hopping to do a new business idea which I think will be really good for many people but I have no money and I was thinking if some of you’s could helf me and maybe be my partners.
• REPLIES:  (and thank you sincerely to those of you who did reply in a positive way)
• If you want us to help us you will have to tell us some more about your idea.
• We would need a business plan.
• You can’t say it’s a secret and expect someone to take you seriously.
• BITTY:  I will tell you’s on here and then if someone pinches my idea I will tell the Police.
• BITTY:  It will need a website and a diary and then one more thing that will make the money.
• REPLIES: 
• What sort of website is it?
• What is the idea?
• BITTY:  It will helf those who have been bullied on the internet and the forums and the facebook and things.
• REPLIES:
• Can you tell us a little more Bitty as internet bullying is certainly something that needs addressing as the social platforms are growing so rapidly and are virtually impossible to police.
• How will your idea make money.
• BITTY:  It will have website and diary but the money will come from the doll.  I can call it a trolldoll for now but I don’t lick to use the word troll because it is not bad enough for these evil bully peoples who can make people and children kill themselfs.
• The doll has some features and can have some more but this is what I have thought of so much -
• It can have eyes that you can poke right to the back of its head and they spring back so you can do it again.
• It can talk things lick “I am just a sad muppet with no life”
• You can pull its hands off and throw them at the wall and say “Talk to me now you daft ******”
• You can bite it or you can give it to your dog to bite or if you don’t have a dog you can pretend to be a dog and get on all fours and growl and wag you tail. 
• You can rite it letters with bad things on and put them in its pocket.
• You can throw it at the wall and tell it to **** off cos you ain’t listening.
• You can smack its head on your desk and it can have hair what can clean your computer and you can say “make yourself useful you stupid ****”.
• It can have lot more features and there can be different ones to collect.
• REPLIES:
• What is the website and diary for?
• I really don’t think violence against a doll is going to help victims of bullying much.
• I can’t see a victim of bullying wanting a doll to remind them of their bullying.
• BITTY:
• I read and study about this for 2 years now and look at websites like this one and try to think answers.  I was bullied and it made me sad and mad but all of the information says you should not get engaged to your bully but I got engaged to mine and kept arguing with them until I got banned.
• If I explain lick this -
• Doll comes in box with a diary and it has a badge and you can call it the name of your bully.
• On the diary is printed a list of helf lines and websites where you can go to get helf and advise but there is a main site where you register your doll and you write on here what is happening and who you have let know and what platform it happened on.  This will make a database that will be access to authorities and helfers only. 
• In diary you rite what you have done and where and when you have reported.
• You will still feel angry and upset so you can take it out on your doll until the real problem is sorted out by authorities.
• REPLIES:
• I like the idea of a central database but not the doll and I don’t think the doll will make money. 
• Is there any other way of financing this?
• BITTY:  The dolls will be cool and everyone will want one for children and different for grown ups.  The website can sell advertising to make money.
• REPLIES: 
• There is a strong smell of Rodent here

Oops I think I might have given myself away or maybe it was when I said that we would nedd a good Ingrowing Meerkat Ear who I think used to be called Search Engine Optometrists … forgot to mention I’d popped into the SEO forum and been reading this thread.

Anyway It was funny he mentioned rodent as I’d been telling my Dad my idea on the phone the night before … even though I’m sure it’s tapped (that’s the phone and my Dad!).  I’d also been telling him about some fab new products that I could make bespoke but the biggest problem would be I would have to have consultations with customers and I couldn’t because I shake, spasm and stutter.

He suggested I wear a Mickey Mouse Head … how spooky is that! … I said maybe I could crochet myself a full head mask with buttons for eyes, ribbons for hair and beads for teeth … then I could turn up and say “I bet you never thought Tilly Ba Lou looked like this did ya! … anyway back to the thread … I had been rumbled and it was now only a matter of time until I would be grassed up and banned again.  I continued … 

• MORE REPLIES:
• Can we have a Moderator Doll too
• Can we have a this and that doll too so we can put it in a dress when it is banned
• BITTY: You can have whatever you want and you can call it whatever you want as that will be up to you to give it a name and a status.
• Having dresses would be good add ons and you could even have a talking ban stick so you can pretend you are the moderator and you can ban people until the real moderators ban the real bullies.
• REPLIES:
• It is a shame because you started to have a good idea there but it turns out you yourself are a troll.

Although we had some fun we had started to get somewhere even discussing possible cartoons and computer games and apps … but it was now only a matter of time before someone finally grassed me up … who would it be this time? …

This time it was Gillie who proudly announced that I had given myself away by calling Vvaannmmaann Scary (as in the Scary Google Monster).  “You might as well give yourself up now Denise you know you have a lifetime ban from this forum and yet you continue to troll.  Next you’ll be crying that you’re being bullied again”

Gillie was put in her place by others while I continued, trying to get the serious issues across.  Then came the ban stick and then the dreaded message:

YOU HAVE BEEN BANNED

REASON: ANOTHER FAERIEB ACCOUNT

DATE THE BAN WILL BE LIFTED:  NEVER

I was actually quite pleased as some of the other members had both joined in the banter and continued the discussion for a while and even though I had been banned, the thread remained and it seemed a few more members licked me too and didn’t believe the rubbish they had been told.

Yesterday some well meaning ass tried to bump the thread and discuss the idea seriously.  The thread was removed and so was the well meaning ass!! … Doubtless because the paranoid mods and admin thought it was “ANOTHER” FaerieB account … I wonder how many of me there are out there in cyberspace now!  Still at least it bumps up the forum numbers in order to impress their advertisers.

I also learnt a new term while I was back on the inside … Adsense Warrior … Hmmm … more on that later, in the meantime I am deadly serious about this business idea so I’m putting it on here now in the hope that it can be properly discussed by real people as opposed to Sift employees, trolls, Adsense Bullies and other paranoid net dwellers that occupy forums for many a strange and varied reason.

Will talk some more later but in the meantime here is a picture of me pretending to do stunts on my BMX.

Always with Love … FaerieF x

 

Our Bodies and Minds are not Designed for Society Today …

While chatting to people on internet forums I find myself repeatedly banging on about two particular books, so I figured I’d write an explanation as to why I have this particular OCD and put a link to it from my signature.  Please note that I gain nothing from promoting these books other than the hope that I will have passed on something invaluable to as many people as possible.

Actually, I say invaluable … the first book, Why Do You Overeat When All You Want Is To Be Slim by Zoe Harcombe actually cost me over two hundred pounds! …

I was exhibiting at a trade show in London and needed some painkillers.  I wandered into what was a very strange pharmacy by northern standards … it appeared to sell just about everything from handbags to postcards and terribly tacky tourist gifts to fruit and vegetables! … it did however have a fairly substantial alternative health and vitamin section which had some really unusual products most of which I’d never heard of.

The Pharmacist spotted my interest and duly accosted me.  She appeared to be somewhat of an expert and diagnosed me with all manner of weird and wonderful ailments I had no idea even existed, let alone ailed me  … things like “an overgrowth of yeast”, which was apparently making my stomach bloated.  Anyway, she started prescribing all these supplements, vitamins, teas and tinctures.  Well I thought, it had to be worth a try as a lot of what she had said made some kind of sense.  I nearly dropped dead when she handed me the small carrier bag in exchange for well over £200! … luckily it was pre credit-crunch and I could put it on one of several pieces of plastic in my wallet.

As part of the deal she GAVE me a copy of the book by Zoe Harcombe.  It appeared that this mega saleswoman rip off merchant was also a cheeky cow to boot! … I mean WTF … I was only a size 12 at the time!

Whilst I didn’t know it at the time, it was probably the best £200 I’ve ever invested in my life and it really was an investment in my life.  You of course can get second hand copies of the book for two or three pounds which surely means it has to be worth a punt just to see why I won’t shut the fuck up about it :D

Zoe’s website strapline simply says it all …

Zoe Harcombe – Because everything you think you know about obesity is wrong

The book can be previewed here and with a contents list that includes such headings as:

• Pure, White and Deadly – Sugar, the more accessible heroin
• Eating Fat Doesn’t Make You Fat – Fat is NOT the enemy
• Calorie Counting Makes You Fat
• Fat Bank Accounts Slim Progress – Why has obesity got worse as we have developed as nations
• I’m Pat and I’m An Alcoholic – How Candida, Food Intolerance and Hypoglycaemia explain Alcoholism

It really opens your eyes as to how our bodies function and how by eating processed and refined foods we are actively destroying our bodies simply in order to line the pockets of those involved in the convenience food and slimming monopolies. 

In fact type Zoe Harcombe into your search engine of choice and find out just how hard this one woman has lobbied to dispel the myths and lies we are fed on a daily basis.

So thanks to Zoe (and a strange London pharmacist of course) I am now totally aware and educated about what I choose to put into my body.  Of course whilst I can control what I put into my body and thereby control some of my bodies own chemicals, I am unable by diet alone to control another set of chemicals …  the stress chemicals.  This brings me onto the second of my two must  have books …

Finding Serenity In The Age of Anxiety by Robert Gerzon

The following text is taken from his website as above:

It’s everything from that irritating hum in the background of our existence to total panic. We often call it “stress” or “fear.” According to author and psychotherapist Robert Gerzon, it’s really anxiety.

Anxiety is America’s number one mental health problem. This anxiety epidemic, spawned by the relentless pace and mounting strains of modern life, has gone largely unrecognized, undiagnosed and untreated. Now Robert Gerzon’s groundbreaking book Finding Serenity in the Age of Anxiety, defies the cultural taboo against acknowledging anxiety and exposes the tragic toll it takes on our health, our relationships, our lives and on society as a whole.

Reaching beyond psychology, Gerzon draws upon science, myth, spirituality and mindbody medicine to bring much-needed clarity to the classic human dilemma of anxiety. Finding Serenity in the Age of Anxiety dispels the myth that all anxiety is bad and reveals its long-hidden secret: There are actually three distinct, yet related, types of anxiety. As he skillfully unravels anxiety’s tangled knot, Gerzon reveals the three different strands — Toxic, Natural and Sacred Anxiety:

• Toxic Anxiety, the dreaded and destructive overreaction, may result in worry, unrealistic fear, self-sabotage, relationship problems, addiction, illness, depression, panic and other symptoms. It can be transformed into emotional healing and personal growth.
• Natural Anxiety, the healthy arousal that warns us of real dangers and alerts us to new opportunities, provides energy that can be harnessed to attain our goals and achieve peak performance. This anxiety can actually feel positive and enlivening as we convert it into excitement and passion.
• Sacred Anxiety, the spiritual and existential aspect, represents our soul’s deepest yearning for love and meaning, our dread of death and our sense of awe and wonder at the miracle of life. When embraced, it leads us to discover our life purpose and to experience unshakable serenity amidst life’s ever-changing circumstances.

An Anxiety Personality Quiz enables you to identify your anxiety reaction style (Worrier, Distracter, Internalizer, Externalizer, Controller and Helper). Gerzon discusses the different ways men and women have been conditioned to respond to anxiety and how awareness of anxiety’s role in relationships can open up greater passion and intimacy. Practical techniques such as positive Inner Talk and the A+ Formula help you change your “inner worrier” into an “inner warrior” that can help you meet the challenges of life. Breathing, body awareness and meditation provide additional mindbody methods of self-calming.

This inspirational and engaging book provides a provocative new way to change anxiety from an annoying pest or terrifying monster into a guiding angel.

I particularly liked the bit where he explains the fight or flight mechanism by using your boss or your bank manager who likes to say no as the bear … it’s the bit where he says something along the lines of “you can neither run away nor punch him in the face” LOL!

I also found the anxiety type quiz fantastically illuminating and could begin to understand more fully, all of the relationships both in my work and my private life … past, present and of course future.  The lessons and knowledge in these two books should be taught as part of the national curriculum.

By the way after I ran out of the 1 month supply of strange supplements I stopped taking them … in all honesty I don’t know whether any of them would have worked or not in the long term but even then I wasn’t about to spend over £200 a month to find out.  I may have contributed to the credit crunch with my use of plastic and sub prime mortgage … I might be not a full bob but I sure as hell ain’t as stupid as those fucking idiots who allowed it happen … and don’t  get me started on those that orchestrated it!

I hope these two books prove to be as invaluable to you and yours as they have been to me and mine.

Always with Love … FaerieF x … (or FaerieB if you followed a forum link to find me … it’s a long story … don’t ask :D)  x

Smell My Blog …

A blog from someone I hold in very high esteem … and a fellow user of the Volkszone forum … Taken from a Blog of the Bog by Unhinged of Slough :D

Monday, 15 June 2009

Tell me why I dont like Mondays?

 

Well here we are at the start of another Week . Well I suppose I had better start with a bit about me.
You may know me already but you may have googled me by accident and were lured in out of boredom, so I will make the assumption you are clueless about the ins and outs of my life.
My Name is Mark in 38 ish years old, and I’m a cleaner in a large company (I’m Afraid I’m going to need to keep that Vague for obvious reasons of this and that)Why Blog of the Bog?
Well part of my job is cleaning Toilets and altho I will try to keep the Toilet humour to a minimum ,there is going to be some present obviously………Its what I do for a living and that’s a part of my life.
On the whole tho I try to busy my mind with anything else other than sticking my hand down a toilet and scrubbing the shrapnel off the pan.So how does one become a cleaner?

Well In my case it involved 2 stints in College learning “trades that would stand me well for life” (HA HA) and various career moves ,and a patch of unemployment during the worldwide Recession.
So here I am at the juncture in my life doing what it takes to survive for now.

and on to the Monday thing.

Mondays for me mean there is a bigger mess than usual to clear up,since I don’t work weekends and the place gets used as a wedding venue as well as its normal office block usage during the week things get messy.
Today was no exception to the rule.

So there I am at 6 am assessing the Damage

Now I’m no killjoy but Weddings and Alcohol do strange things to people, There will be toilet paper all over the floor, Unflushed toilets and the evidence of too much finger food upsetting tummy’s.
Now this leaves me a bit puzzled,It also causes me to ask myself questions.

How mortal do you need to get to miss your own Arsehole with toilet paper?

How do they fail to hit a Toilet

Why would they leave a Vase in a Toilet?

What sort of Gig was it to involve people using lots of cable ties in the Toilets? (I’m not sure i want to know the answer to that…..It all looked a bit Deviant to me)

How do you Guys manage to keep your own Toilets from blocking at home without my help?

and

Why is it the ladies that’s always in the worst state? well you are sitting down for Starters the paper is on the floor beside the toilet…………………how does that work?

Anyway its all pristine again now, and Its what I do to keep the Wolves from the door…..Mus sent grumble!

but anyway enough of me chuntering on about Toilets.

I’m off to ponder life the Universe and everything…..

Be nice, have fun………. and be sure to say “Hello” to the cleaner when you walk past them. Maybe even ask them about the weekend , cos they are sure as hell trying to find any distraction to take their mind off what they just put their hand in……………….and what exactly was that that dripped out of the bin on to their shoes?

We are but human ;)

Laters
Mark

 

Always with love … FaerieF x

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Ban Is For Life …

I know it’s been a while since I posted and I hope you are all as well and happy as can be :)

I’ve held off posting for a number of reasons not to mention the renovation at Stig Mansions chaos which is thankfully all now done and dusted.

I was also waiting for my copy of my mental health records which have really provided me with some answers but inevitably created more questions.  I was finally waiting to get back into UK Business Forums as my first 2 strikes expired around the 18th of this month.

I have now been told by Sift Media (the owners of UKBF) that my ban is permanent.  I have again pleaded with them to re-consider as I have no wish to take further action but they have simply chosen to go silent on me.

Not being able to access my account on there really does make tying up all the loose ends and finally clearing my name a nightmare on my own and so it looks as though I shall again have to take legal advice. 

I’m seeing my psychotic counselor again tomorrow, to go through my records and I may post after that.

However, I need a break … Christmas has never been the same since my brother was killed … then for the last 4 Christmases we have had the following crap piled on top!!!

• 2007 … finally being forced into bankruptcy
• 2008 … homeless and penniless in Kent
• 2009 … living behind a pub on Anglesey, where we were constantly ridiculed and harassed by a handful of locals
• 2010 … finally getting a flat … still skint and still being told that I was psychotic and delusional

This year I intend to make our christmas as special as possible and so I intend to take a two-week break from my brain, my business and probably this blog.

I would like to wish you all a wonderful festive season filled with as much love and laughter as possible … and as I’m now officially a faerie, please make an extra christmas wish on me ;)

Always with love … ex FaerieB on UKBF x

Wallpapering a Bathroom …

Hey Loads … this one’s for you hunny … sorry I binabit quiet this last few days :hug: x

A quick update of our renovation of the Stig Mansions project … apologies for my recent absence but the mess, chaos and invasion of hunky workmen finally took its toll and I have spent the last week or so hiding in the bedroom, mostly sleeping and mostly not talking as my stutter is getting worse!

Anyway, you may recall that I won the battle to have the kitchen properly plastered … unfortunately I failed to notice that they had also written “Just patch up” in the bathroom.

There are strange lumps and bumps all over the walls which have been delicately enhanced by the presence of rough filler.  The guys arrived to paint the bathroom and I asked whether they would be rubbing the walls down first.  Their reply was “No … We’ll be lining papering the walls before we paint them” …

Now there is no window in the bathroom and the decent quality expelair has been ripped out in favour of a tiny cheap one which appears to serve no apparent purpose.  Forgive me if I’m wrong but isn’t the best method of  wallpaper removal;  steaming??!!

We had to sign a disclaimer to say that we didn’t want the walls papering!

Over the weekend the paint started to bubble, blister and fall off the walls … today they have thrown some more filler at them.  Tonight I am getting drunk “plastered”!

Always with love … FaerieF x

… and now for a timely reminder from the ramblings of Tilly Ba Lou …

Once … when I became a flower

I saw that the universe held all that I needed

and gave freely of these gifts …

Sometimes it is us who must change …

to appreciate our good fortune 

 ~x~

 

A note back to Tilly from FaerieF …

I told the universe that I didn’t need lumps !!! … lumps freak me out …. gggrrrrrr x